Affirmation for What I am

I accept and respect myself for who I am.
I am who I want to be, and only I have the power to change who I am.

You already possess all of the power and resources required to create anything you choose.
To unlock that power, all it takes is a willingness to change.

Affirmations are statements of truth that help us to feel differently to act differently. It is these new actions that create miracles. What could you accomplish if you believed that?

• You are powerful.
• You are talented.
• You are enough.
• You have or can get the resources you need.
• Your past does not have to determine your future.
• You only have to take the first step.

Most of the time, it is our own thoughts that get in the way of success. Positive thinking re-programs our minds to believe what is true about life. Fear and worry are only barriers if you allow them to prevent you from taking steps toward a life you fall in love with.

• Affirmations help to affirm positives and counteract negatives
• Affirmations program the conscious and unconscious mind to focus on what you want
• Affirmations can help turn negative self-talk into positive self-talk
• Affirmations can change negative habits into positive ones.

Every thought you think, every word you say, is an affirmation. All of our self-talk or inner dialogue is a stream of affirmations. We are continually affirming subconsciously with our words and thoughts and this flow of affirmations is creating our life experience in every moment. Our beliefs are just learned thought-patterns that we have developed since childhood, many of these work well for us, but others may now be working against us.

It’s the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief. And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen. Don’t force yourself to believe it, just say it. All you have to do is repeat it over and over again and the affirmation will quite naturally have an effect. After all, you don’t force yourself to believe that the medication your doctor has given you will work. You just take the prescribed dosage and assume it will. So too with affirmations; just repeating the statement many times will cause it to work for you.
The more often you use it, the purer your aura will become.
Stand in front of the mirror and repeat it to yourself daily. You might feel silly in the beginning, but who cares and who’s listening?! Do it in your own quiet time when nobody is around.


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There will always be those who thrive

There are always those who thrive when masses are dying of sickness. There are always those who thrive economically when economic decline seems to be the order of our nation. There are always those who are clear-minded, in environments of confusion. You do not need everyone or anyone else to align with your desire—only you need to align with your desire.

It's interesting, how, when you know that you are the creator of your own experience, and that anything you ask for, Source immediately begins to answer, things start falling into place.

Through the millennia humanity has always grasped for something to lean on, a crutch, some external factor that can "save" them, get them to to a place of contentment or help them through a crisis or difficult times. People turn to drugs, smoking, drinking, religion, sedatives or many of the other external factors that can make one "feel good".

When you understand that you deliberately create your own reality through your focus and your exposure to contrast, when you really get it, that your desire is always answered and that it's just your work to get into a place of allowing it—then, standing in that unfulfilled place of a fresh, new desire is delicious.

All you have to do is to discover that you have within you a Guidance System that lets you know, in any moment, what you're doing with your vibration. You can literally feel, once you have listened for it a little bit, whether you are a vibrational match to your Core Energy or whether you are not.

None of the "crutches" are right or wrong. When you find something that works for you, stick to it. Have you ever known someone whose life was not based on what you thought was moral or appropriate behavior? And yet, they continued to win. You know why? They don't listen to the other side of the argument and mix up their vibration. They focus upon and hold themselves in alignment with what they want—and the Universe delivers to them what they want.

It doesn't matter how many others stand back and claim injustice, foul play, or inappropriate, the Universe always answers your vibration.

And it doesn't have anything to do with what anybody else is doing—or thinks about what you're doing—unless you change your vibration because of what they think about what you're doing. That's why a variety of medical remedies work differently on different people. That's why a variety of religious intentions work for different people.

How do you ever decide what is right or wrong for you, what is appropriate or inappropriate, when there are so many different opinions and voices trying to get your attention and trying to get you to follow?

If you have a very narrow experience, if you only have one or two choices, it is fairly easy to choose one and stick to it. But as you go through life, all these different options are offered to you, where people have different religious beliefs or different beliefs about what you should eat or the way you should dress, now you have greater contradiction within your experience. The variety is enormous. And so, many of us try to find the biggest group in order to please.

Begin to move through life more on a feeling basis than on an intellectual, thinking basis. You want to reach the point where you can just tell by the way you feel, “Am I vibrationally up to speed with who I am and what I want, or have I chosen — by influence of others or by some old habit of thought — have I chosen to focus somewhere that’s lower and slower in vibration?”

You can believe anything you want and have success with it. But in the moment you push against what another believes, you cut yourself off from your success.They must be allowed if I am to be allowed. All is allowed.

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Life after divorce

I am not divorced, have never been, although I have been through a seperation, but I do have a certain outlook on divorce and being single again - my favourite tag line is "Each and every one of us used to be single before marriage!" so what's the big deal? But this divorce thing can, and sometimes does, destroy so many lives - why?

Because how you view yourself becomes your reality.

The way you think and feel about living your life after divorce is mirrored in how you're living life right now. In a nutshell, your life is a self-fulfilling prophecy. What you expect will happen, will happen. You'll either live up or down, to your own expectations.

What are your expectations for your life after divorce?

I know, divorce hurts. Let's look at your new life this way, whatever you dwell on most forms the world around you. If you look for the negative, you can find negative circumstances and situations everywhere. Negative thinking becomes negative reality. When you close your eyes and think about the future - Do you picture yourself as successful, content and happy? When you think of your life five years from now, how does it look and feel? Do you see the future as an exciting adventure or something to dread and fear?

This time of emotional upheaval more than any other, is the time to dig deep and find your powerful and positive inner motivators. Inner motivators begin in your memory and imagination. When you use your imagination to picture positive and exciting outcomes, you are more willing to come out of your comfort zone and take the needed risks to make a new life reality. Your imagination creates your possibilities.

Have you tried visualizing an exciting, successful, happy and content future? If visualization is new to you, you may be sceptical about using "daydreaming" to create reality. You may be saying, "Reality is reality and wishing and hoping won't change anything." Think of visualizing as planting seeds of content and success in your imagination. These seeds grow into goals and the goals into reality.

As someone who has many friends who have been through divorce, I'm a big believer in the philosophy that a person is only limited by her/his own imagination and willingness to take positive action. Your mind will react positively to the emotional belief that something you desire is already reality. You are visualizing an ideal scenario, ignoring reality as it is at this moment. You will be using your mental energy to attract what you truly want into your life. Focus all your energy on the positives you want, not the negatives you don't want. Your mind will work very hard to make visualizations come true. Your nervous system tunes into your visualization. When visualizing your new ideal life, you begin to stimulate your mind to take action.

Taking the appropriate steps, everyday, will help make your self-empowered and rewarding new life after divorce a reality.

Do you see the future as an exciting adventure or something to dread and fear?

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