Start not -- nor deem my spirit fled:
In me behold the only skull,
From which, unlike a living head,
Whatever flows is never dull.
Author: Lord Byron
To me, skulls don't depict death and decay, but tell a story of some life lived somewhere, a soul that experienced life to the full and, like all things inevitable, came to an end, whether happy or sad. Within the confines of those bones lies the story of this Crow's many flights through the African sky, and perhaps the birth of many an off-spring. I hear him say, "I lived, I loved, I quaffed like thee; I died: let earth my bones resign".
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The art of living… is neither careless drifting on the one hand nor fearful clinging to the past on the other. It consists in being sensitive to each moment, in regarding it as utterly new and unique, in having the mind open and wholly receptive.
We are not meant to stay wounded. We are supposed to move through our tragedies and challenges and to help each other move through the many painful episodes of our lives. By remaining stuck in the power of our wounds, we block our own transformation. We overlook the greater gifts inherent in our wounds — the strength to overcome them and the lessons that we are meant to receive through them. Wounds are the means through which we enter the hearts of other people. They are meant to teach us to become compassionate and wise.